# What Are The Effects of Divorce On Children? | Brown Family Law **Table of Contents***[*SHOW*]* 1. A. How Divorce Can Impact A Child’s Psychology 2. B. How Divorce Can Impact A Child’s Social Life 3. C. How Divorce Can Impact A Child’s Behavior 4. D. How Divorce Can Impact A Child’s Health ![What Are The Effects Of Divorce On Children?](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/wp-content/uploads/what-are-the-effects-of-divorce-on-children.png) Divorce can have various negative effects on children that can impact different aspects of their life, such as their: 1. Psychology 2. Social life 3. Behavior 4. Health Divorce turns conventional parenting upside down. Visitation schedules, [joint custody](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/faqs/what-is-the-most-common-child-custody-arrangement/), shared custody, [sole or primary custody](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/faqs/what-is-the-difference-between-joint-and-sole-legal-custody/), and other legal rulings can insert several difficulties into a child’s life. Some children, particularly if they are in their teens or mature enough, may understand and somehow cope with the new normal. Also, some children who have witnessed or experienced emotional or [physical abuse](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/faqs/what-should-i-do-if-i-think-my-ex-is-abusing-my-child/) may actually be relieved. The other children, however, may feel the intense pressure of witnessing their family split up, and their feelings can lead to the following problems. ## A. How Divorce Can Impact A [Child’s Psychology](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/faqs/what-are-the-steps-of-a-custody-evaluation/) A child’s response to divorce depends on his age group and level of maturity. A young child may feel sad while an older child may feel lonely, embarrassed, or angry. Though for some children the effects of divorce may wear off over a period of time, for others the effects can cast a shadow in the long term. Some of the psychological effects on children can be: - Feelings of abandonment, sadness, tension, frustration, low self-esteem, and other negative thoughts can increase the risk of mental disorders. - A huge familial disruption, social distractions, and feelings of alienation [can take the child’s concentration away](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/faqs/divorce-process-what-if-we-both-have-medical-insurance-for-the-kids/) and make him perform poorly in school. - Anxiety, anger, humiliation, sadness, tension, loss of family, etc., can combine and motivate the child to escape from reality by getting addicted to substances – maybe not immediately, but as he/she grows older. Get Clear Guidance for Your Divorce [Schedule a Consultation](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/contact-us/) ## B. How Divorce Can Impact A Child’s Social Life - When their parents separate, children who are heavily dependent on their parents for emotional support may withdraw into a shell, feel intense sadness, and even feel depressed. As time passes, they may find it difficult to make friends or maintain relationships with romantic partners, friends, or family members. - If the child withdraws into a shell, he/she may lose interest in social activity and his/her insecurity may start building up as time passes because there’s not enough social support to fall back on. An increasing feeling of insecurity can also trigger the child to make wrong choices and decisions. - Having witnessed a problem at home that didn’t end well, the child may face difficulties in resolving problems or conflicts with others as he/she grows up. - Some children may get angered because of the divorce and end up becoming hostile, destructive, and aggressive social misfits. A Calmer, Clearer Way Through Divorce [Talk to Our Team](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/contact-us/) ## C. How Divorce Can Impact A Child’s Behavior - When children are required to cope with big changes in their life like shuttling between homes, splitting time between parents, getting used to their parents with new romantic partners, maybe even [changing schools](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/faqs/what-are-the-effects-of-changing-schools-mid-year-during-a-divorce/), relocating to another state, etc., they may find it difficult to adapt to the new dynamics. They may withdraw, feel depressed or angry, or develop feelings of hostility. - Some children may go on to become overly emotionally sensitive adults because the divorce threw their life out of gear, or made them sad, angry, anxious, or depressed – and they were not able to process their emotions. Their emotions may find an outlet in their social behavior. - Some children may lose faith in the institutions of marriage and family and go on to become angry or depressed loners, or people who just cannot control their emotions or actions (loss of control). - Some children’s self-esteem may get lowered, or they may feel like they have been abandoned by their parents. Their feelings will reflect in their social behavior, but how a child reacts depends on his/her mental makeup. ![Brown Law Logo](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/wp-content/themes/brown-family-law/assets/app/img/logo-white.png) Support Through Your Toughest Transition [Call ![call-arrow](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/wp-content/themes/brown-family-law/assets/app/svg/cta-call.svg)801-685-9999](tel:+18016859999) ## D. How Divorce Can Impact A Child’s Health If a child’s tender mind is exposed to the kind of mental stress that you read about above, it is natural that the psychological problems end up impacting the child’s physical health as well. Disturbed sleep, constant mental stress, poor and irregular eating habits, hostile behavior, and other conditions caused by a divorce can make a child prone to illnesses, addicted to substances, indulge in criminal activities, develop poor eating habits, or become a weak and unproductive adult, and so on. Divorce Blog Posts: [![About Getting a Divorce In Utah](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/wp-content/uploads/about-getting-a-divorce-in-utah-300x200.jpg)](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/blog/about-getting-a-divorce-in-utah/) ### [About Getting a Divorce In Utah](https://www.brownfamilylaw.com/blog/about-getting-a-divorce-in-utah/) Arizona Child Custody: What if We Can’t Agree on a Parenting Plan? 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