Christmas and Divorce

This is a legal blog, and that means it’s full of legal stuff, e.g.: answers to legal questions, legal topics of interest in divorce, case strategy, etc. I want to put that aside for a moment and talk personally about Christmas and divorce.

Divorce is difficult. In fact, it’s one of the most difficult things anyone will ever endure. A primary reason it’s so difficult is because people feel broken. Their families are broken, their emotions are broken, their finances are broken, their sacred religious vows are broken, they’re broken.

And this level of brokenness is accentuated at Christmas. Christmas used to be a time of laughter, togetherness, and joy. In divorce, it is all too often a time of doubt, hurt, and loneliness. It doesn’t have to be this way.

At its heart, Christmas is a celebration of the Christ Child. His birth represents a new beginning in the history of the world. It is a symbol of potential (baby Jesus was not the Christ yet) and triumph of joy over grief (Jesus overcame his humble, broken beginning to triumph over all). So it was for Jesus, so it can be for every divorced family.

Where you might see a broken home, God sees the potential of every human spirit to come together in the worst of times. Where you might see loneliness, God longs for a close relationship with each of us. Where you might see financial ruin, God sees the potential for you to rebuild and succeed with money. Where you might see yourself as a broken vessel, God sees the opportunity to take those pieces and make you in to something better. As C.S. Lewis said in Mere Christianity:

Imagine yourself as a living house. God comes in to rebuild that house. At first, perhaps, you can understand what He is doing. He is getting the drains right and stopping the leaks in the roof and so on; you knew that those jobs needed doing and so you are not surprised. But presently He starts knocking the house about in a way that hurts abominably and does not seem to make any sense. What on earth is He up to? The explanation is that He is building quite a different house from the one you thought of — throwing out a new wing here, putting on an extra floor there, running up towers, making courtyards. You thought you were being made into a decent little cottage: but He is building a palace. He intends to come and live in it Himself.

You are palatial in the eyes of God. You children are palatial in the eyes of God. Divorce doesn’t change that. Nothing changes that.

This season, Christmas will mean so much more than it ever has because it symbolizes your ability to overcome the hardships of divorce. And it serves as a reminder of your true nature and your ability to triumph.

Merry Christmas, and God bless.

Protect Your Money And Your Family

We remove fear associated with divorce, protect your money & maximize time with your kids!

We're here to help. Let's determine your best options.

Call Us 24//7 at 801-685-9999 to Speak with a Live Representative

Utah Divorce FAQs
Top 100 Divorce Blog
What Clients Are Saying…
BrownLaw icon
Excellent
Brown Family Law
Based on 970 reviews
Daniel is guy who truly wants to help. Working with him never feels transactional. He truly does provide you with tailored solutions for divorce which is rarely a "cut and paste" situation. Thanks again for your help Daniel!
David and Dani were very helpful and made my case as stress free as possible.
Great Team. Efficient and smooth process. Excellent communication. Thank you David Hunt.
I’m so grateful for attorney Nicholas Schwarz and paralegal Carren Leavitt at Brown Family Law. From day one, they were ready to work with me immediately, making my case feel like a top priority. Their organization is exceptional, every detail was handled with care and efficiency. Most importantly, their commitment to communication stood out. They kept me informed every step of the way, answered questions promptly, and made sure I fully understood my options.

If you want a legal team that is proactive, organized, and truly dedicated to their clients, I highly recommend Nicholas and Carren at Brown Family Law.
They got my dovorce going and stayed in contact with me every week. Every step of the way anytime I had questions they were answered fast. They made it so much easier.
Clay was great to work with! He was very willing to explain everything I needed to know and helped me understand the options on my case. Very easy to work with.
Jennifer and Dani, as well the rest of the team went above and beyond when it came to my case.
I would highly recommend ‘Brown Family Law’.
My experience with them was exceptional.
Alija
Loved working with Daniel and the whole team. Great service.
Marco and his team at Brown Family Law have created nearly the perfect system for getting divorced in Utah. From the initial intake, to gathering all of the necessary documentation, to the client communication in between. There is so much work that goes into getting divorced, but with Marco and his team you'll always know where you are in the process and what happens next, which is such a comfort. Would highly recommend.
I would give them 10 stars if I could. Clay was professional and super organized. He took the time to explain everything. I would highly recommend him for any family law needed. Melanie was a godsend. She not only kept me continually informed of the progress, she sent texts of encouragement and support throughout the entire process. I would give her 100 stars for going above and beyond to make this experience less stressful. Her encouragement and genuine caring were comforting and calming. The entire staff at Brown Law are on your side and if you are lucky enough to get Clay and Melanie on your team you will not be disappointed. Thanks! Mack M.
Response from the owner:Wow, thank you so much. Melanie is great. Glad she helped you so well.
yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7

Categories