How to Prepare for Your First Meeting with a Divorce Attorney

Meeting with a divorce attorney for the first time can be one of the most important steps you take during the divorce process. Whether you’re planning to file or simply exploring your options, the more prepared you are, the more effective your meeting will be. This guide explains what to bring, what to ask, and how to evaluate your legal representation so you walk in with confidence—and walk out with clarity.

What to Bring to Your First Meeting

Proper documentation helps your attorney give accurate, specific advice. Consider organizing the following items in advance:

  • Income Documentation: Recent pay stubs, W-2s, or 1099s for both spouses.
  • Tax Returns: Federal and state returns from the past 2–3 years.
  • Bank Statements: Checking, savings, credit union, and online accounts.
  • Retirement & Investment Accounts: 401(k)s, IRAs, brokerage accounts.
  • Debt Records: Credit cards, mortgages, personal loans, or business debt.
  • Real Estate & Vehicle Records: Titles, deeds, mortgage balances.
  • Prenuptial or Postnuptial Agreements (if applicable): These are legally binding contracts in Utah and will directly impact asset division. [https://le.utah.gov/xcode/Title81/Chapter3/C81-3-P2_2024090120240501.pdf]
  • Proposed Custody Arrangements: If children are involved, outline your proposed parenting schedule and any concerns.
  • Chronology of the Marriage: Include major milestones, issues, or incidents relevant to the case (e.g., separations, infidelity, abuse, financial decisions).

What to Ask During the Consultation

Coming prepared with thoughtful questions allows you to gauge the attorney’s experience and fit:

  • What percentage of your practice is dedicated to family law?/strong>
    90% and above is what you’re looking for.
  • How long have you practiced family law in Utah?
    Bonus points if they’ve handled cases in your specific district court.
  • What are the likely outcomes based on my situation?
    While attorneys can’t promise results, experienced ones will give realistic expectations.
  • How do you handle communication and billing?
    Understand how often you’ll get updates and whether billing is hourly, flat fee, or retainer-based.
  • What are the next steps if I decide to move forward today?
    This ensures you know what your timeline looks like from filing to final decree.

How to Evaluate the Attorney

Beyond the content of the meeting, pay close attention to:

  • Listening Skills: Did they take time to understand your concerns before offering solutions?
  • Legal Expertise: Were answers clear, specific, and grounded in Utah law?
  • Empathy and Communication Style: You want a lawyer who not only advocates for you but also understands the emotional weight of your situation.
  • Organization and Preparedness: A good attorney will walk you through a plan of action—not just give vague advice.
  • Social Proof: Look at reviews to see what experiences previous clients had.

Remember: hiring a divorce lawyer is as much about trust as it is about credentials. Your case may last months or even years—make sure it’s someone you feel confident working with long-term.

Divorce is a personal journey—but you don’t have to go it alone. At Brown Family Law, we walk with you from day one. Come prepared, and walk out empowered.
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