
Marco Brown
Divorce Attorney
One of the most common questions asked during initial consultations is: “What about alimony? How does that work?”
It’s a good question. Let me address it for a minute.
Determining alimony is really a function of two things: time and need.
If you haven’t been married long, you really haven’t gotten used to a married lifestyle, so a court is unlikely to award alimony. For instance, if a couple has been married for two years, and both worked before the marriage, then alimony is unlikely. This is because each spouse can easily go back to his or her single life. The length of the marriage is so short it hasn’t really changed much for either spouse.
My rule of thumb is: if your marriage is less than four years, it will be very difficult to obtain alimony. Four or five years, it really depends on the circumstances. More than five years, it’s much more likely to end up with an alimony award.
Also, alimony can really only last for the length of the marriage. In other words, if you were married for six years, the longest you could expect to pay or receive alimony is six years. So, that’s time, now need.
A spouse must show need in order to receive an alimony award. Here’s how Utah courts normally calculate need.
First, you look at the spouse who makes the least amount of money and determine what his or her income is (income is really any money coming in from any source) and what the reasonable monthly expenditures are (e.g., debts, mortgage, daycare, food, etc.). If that spouse runs in the red (i.e., more goes out than comes in), then there is a need for alimony.
Second, you do the same calculation for the spouse who makes more money and you see if that spouse has more money coming in than going out. If so, then that spouse has the ability to pay alimony. If one spouse has a need, and the other spouse has the ability to pay, then an alimony award is likely.
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Here is an example illustrating how alimony might work. Alice and Tom have been married for seven years. They have one child, Matthew. Alice works and makes $15 per hour. Tom works and makes $25 per hour. When you look at Alice’s net monthly income, it’s about $2100 per month. Her reasonable monthly expenses are calculated to be $3100 per month. (I’m making up numbers here for the sake of the example.) Tom nets about $3600 per month from his job. His reasonable monthly expenses will be about where Alice’s are, $3100 per month. This means Alice has a need of $1000 per month, and Tom has the ability to pay of $500 per month. So, Alice would be awarded $500 in alimony for up to seven years.
(Note: Very often there is simply not enough money to go around in divorce, so alimony awards are capped by a spouse’s ability to pay, even if need is greater than the ability to pay.)
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What I’ve described above are some rules of thumb and the most common method of calculating alimony. Alimony can be complicated and is really pretty fact dependent, so use what I’ve written as a general guide map. If you want hard, realistic alimony projections, you’ll need to get down the nitty-gritty numbers.
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Finally, for your review, here is Utah Code, Section 30-3-35(8), which discusses alimony calculation principles:
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