Protecting Your Privacy During Divorce: What You Need to Know

Divorce is deeply personal.

It’s the kind of life shift that can feel like your world is being carefully unraveled, thread by thread. You’re sorting through finances, custody arrangements, and emotions you didn’t expect. But there’s something else many people don’t think about until it’s too late: their privacy.

We hear it often in our offices—clients quietly wondering, “How much of my life is going to be out there for everyone to see?” The answer? As much as you allow. Fortunately, there are real, effective steps you can take to protect your personal information and maintain some peace of mind during an otherwise public process.

And if you’re unsure where to start, we’re here to walk you through it.

Why Privacy Matters in Divorce

Every divorce is different. Some are amicable and civil. Others feel like you’re barely treading water in a storm. No matter where yours lands on the spectrum, protecting your personal information should always be a priority.

When divorce papers are filed, many of the documents become part of the public record. This can include:

Imagine someone being able to Google your name and stumble across a summary of your assets or parenting plan. It’s unsettling. It feels like a violation—because it is.

The good news? There are ways to keep your private life private.

1. Be Selective About What Goes on the Record

Let’s start with the basics. Not everything has to go into your court filings. While certain financial disclosures are required by law, a lot of other sensitive content can be handled outside the courtroom.

For instance, if you and your spouse can agree on key terms—like how to divide assets or share parenting responsibilities, these agreements can be settled privately through mediation. That way, instead of airing out every detail in front of a judge (and in court records), you’re resolving things quietly, respectfully, and in a controlled setting.

Mediation also helps reduce conflict and cost two things we care deeply about. If you’re unsure whether it’s right for your case, schedule a confidential consultation to explore your options.

2. Request to Seal the Records

Utah law allows you to file a motion to seal your divorce records — especially when sensitive information is involved.

Courts are often willing to grant these requests when:

  • Children are involved
  • There are medical or psychological details in the record
  • Financial records include proprietary business information
  • The content could damage someone’s personal or professional life

Sealing the record means it’s no longer available for public viewing. It doesn’t disappear entirely, but it becomes restricted—typically to the parties involved, their attorneys, and the judge.

We’ve helped many clients navigate this process. If you’re not sure whether it applies to your case, reach out for guidance.

3. Be Mindful on Social Media (Seriously)

This one’s big.

In our digital age, a simple post can unravel your whole case. Judges, lawyers, even opposing parties can and do comb through social media during divorce proceedings. A seemingly harmless picture of a vacation, a night out, or a new purchase can suddenly become ammunition.

In fact, according to the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, over 80% of divorce attorneys have seen a spike in social media evidence being used in court.

Our advice: go quiet. Not forever, just for now. If you’re actively going through a divorce, pause your accounts or at the very least, tighten your privacy settings and avoid posting about:

  • Your finances
  • Your dating life
  • Your ex
  • Your children
  • Anything emotionally charged

If you’re unsure what’s “safe” to share, err on the side of caution—or better yet, give us a call. We’ll help you play it smart.

4. Protect Your Digital Footprint

A divorce can sometimes reveal cracks in trust. One partner may attempt to snoop through emails, messages, or even financial apps. If your devices are shared—or if your ex knows your passwords—it’s time to change everything.

Here’s a quick privacy checklist:

  • Update passwords for email, social media, banking, and cloud storage
  • Use two-factor authentication whenever possible
  • Log out of shared devices and remove saved credentials
  • Review app permissions and connected devices

It’s a step often overlooked, but critical for protecting not just your privacy but your future.

5. Work With an Attorney Who Values Discretion

At Brown Family Law, we believe discretion isn’t just a courtesy, it’s essential. Your story, your documents, and your personal history deserve to be handled with care.

When we represent you, we take every step possible to:

  • Minimize what’s filed publicly
  • Recommend alternative dispute resolution methods

  • Advise you on privacy risks
  • Build a strategy that protects your reputation and future

You don’t have to go through this alone. And you certainly don’t have to give the world a front-row seat.

Speak with an experienced Utah divorce attorney today.

A Personal Note From Our Team

We’ve seen how stressful divorce can be—not just legally, but emotionally. One client, Sarah (name changed for privacy), came to us afraid that her ex might leak private photos or messages. She was embarrassed, anxious, and unsure of her rights.

Together, we filed protective orders, limited public filings, and worked with the court to ensure her privacy was respected. Today, she’s moved on, stronger and more confident, knowing her personal life never became public gossip.

You deserve that same peace of mind.

In Summary: Your Privacy Is Worth Protecting

Divorce doesn’t mean you lose control of your personal life. In fact, with the right strategy and support, you can emerge from this process with your dignity—and your privacy—intact.

Remember:

  • Use mediation when possible
  • Request to seal records

  • Stay off social media
  • Secure your digital world
  • Partner with a law firm that respects your boundaries

If you’re navigating divorce and unsure how to protect yourself, you don’t have to figure it out on your own. We’re ready to listen. Your story matters, and we’ll help you tell it with strength, privacy, and compassion.

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